Harville Hendrix|Helen LaKelly Hunt: Getting the Love You Want at 1440 Multiversity

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Getting the Love You Want

November 15 - 17, 2019

Friday - Sunday, 2 nights

All-inclusive program package to include:

<ul> <li>Tuition</li> <li>Three Meals in Kitchen Table (daily)</li> <li>Shared or Private Accommodations</li> <li>Signature classes and wellness offerings</li> </ul> <p>Please Note: All packages are priced per person. Should you elect a shared accommodation and community hall bath, 1440 will randomly pair you with a gender-specific roommate. Only private rooms have the option of a private bath.  1440 Multiversity is a smoke-free campus.</p>

Please Call to register 844.544.1440

Program Description


Lay the foundation for creating the thriving relationship you have always wanted together. The Getting the Love You Want workshop has helped thousands of couples worldwide move from an unconscious to a conscious relationship, rediscover safety, sustain deep connection, and experience joyful aliveness.

Based on Imago Relationship Therapy, this approach views couplehood as a spiritual path. As you engage in the experiences of this weekend, you will discover the innate healing power of connection and the profound spiritual potential in your intimate partnership.

With Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD—New York Times best-selling coauthors of ten books, including Getting the Love You Want—you will learn:

  • Proven concepts and tools that work in real-life relationships
  • New ways to talk that remove negativity
  • How your relationship can heal the wounds of childhood
  • Caring behaviors that transform any relationship into an instrument of healing and growth.

Couples new and old, in crisis or in love, and married or unmarried are invited to join this transformative workshop. You will take home new approaches to old issues and a shared vision for where you are heading—with the tools to take you there. Those in the helping professions will also benefit from this workshop, gaining fresh insights for working with their clients.

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  • Faculty Bio
    Harville Hendrix, PhD

    Cocreator of Imago Relationship Therapy

    Harville Hendrix is a couples therapist with more than 40 years of experience as a therapist, educator, clinical trainer, author, and lecturer. He and his wife, Helen LaKelly Hunt, co-created Imago Relationship Therapy, a couples therapy now practiced by more than 2,000 certified therapists in 30 countries.

    Referred to by Oprah Winfrey as the Marriage Whisperer, Dr. Hendrix has appeared on her show numerous times as a marriage and intimacy expert. He and his wife have coauthored ten books on intimate relationships and parenting, including the New York Times bestsellers Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find, and their most recent book, Making Marriage Simple. For the past four years, Dr. Hendrix and Dr. Hunt have been working to ignite a global movement to educate people about the value of healthy, intimate relationships.

    They reside in New York City, have been married 30 years, and have six children and five grandchildren.

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    Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD

    Cocreator of Imago Relationship Therapy

    Helen LaKelly Hunt has been an important partner to her husband, Dr. Harville Hendrix, both in the evolution of Imago Theory and the growth of Imago’s global organizational infrastructure.

    Dr. Hunt has also been active within the women‰’s movement, helping to catalyze and grow the area of women’s philanthropy. Five years ago, she cofounded Women Moving Millions, a global movement of donors with the goal of raising the bar on women’‰s giving.

    Dr. Hunt is an honored inductee into the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the author of Faith and Feminism: A Holy Alliance, as well as the recent article, ‰”Healthy Marriage: Healthy Women and Girls,” inviting the women‰’s movement to take up equality in marriage as an agenda. Helen and her husband live in New York City. Together they have six children and five grandchildren.

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  • Why Attend
    • Tune into the profound growth opportunities that your relationship offers so you can move forward together in the direction you want to go.

    • Try out proven methods for transforming your relationship into one of healing, support, and deep connection.

    • Enhance the compassion in your relationship in order to lift each of you up toward your highest potential.

    • Plant the seeds for a long, healthy future that meets both of your needs and enhances the joy you experience together.

  • Things to Know/Schedule

    Program Schedule

    Getting the Love You Want

    Multiversity 1440 (12 ½ hours)


    Friday, 7:30pm – 9:30pm (PART I)

    TIME                     TOPIC

    7:30 – 7:50pm    Introductions / A Myth Dispelled

    7:50 – 7:55pm     Why Do Couples Fight & Journey to Consciousness

    7:55 – 8:15pm     Three Core Ideas of the Workshop

    8:15 – 8:30pm     Zero Negativity

    8:30 – 8:40pm    Dialogue Lecture

    8:40 – 9:00pm     Demonstration of Mirroring

    9:00 – 9:20pm     Practice Mirroring

    9:20 – 9:30pm     Feedback/Wrap Up


    Saturday, 9:00am – 12:00pm (PART 2)

    TIME                     TOPIC

    9:00 – 9:10am     Large Group Sharing

    9:10 – 9:35am     Dialogue Practice

    9:35 – 9:45am     Large Group Sharing

    9:45 – 9:55am     The Cosmic Human Journey

    9:55 – 10:15am Development of the Brain

    10:15 – 10:30am      The Psychological Human Journey

    10:30 – 10:50am     The Parent-Child Dialogue Demonstration

    10:50 – 11:20am     Practice Parent-Child Dialogue

    11:20 – 11:30am      Large Group Sharing

    11:30 – 11:40am      Formation of Imago / Romantic Love / Power Struggle

    11:40 – 11:55am      Turtles & Hailstorms

    11:55 – 12:00pm                  Assignments

    12:00pm – 2:00pm                         Lunch Break


    Saturday, 2:00pm – 5:00pm (PART 3)

    TIME                     TOPIC

    2:00 – 2:10pm     Large Group Sharing

    2:10 – 2:30pm    Lecture: The Full Dialogue

    Dialogue Demonstration

    2:30 – 3:00pm    The Full Dialogue practice

    3:00 – 3:15pm     Conscious Partnership & the Space Between

    3:15 – 3:25pm     No Exit Decision

    3:25 – 3:40pm     Restructuring Frustrations

    3:40 – 3:55pm    Couples Write Behavior Change Request

    3:55 – 4:10pm    Behavior Change Request video demonstration

    4:10 – 4:50pm    Practice Behavior Change Request Dialogue

    4:50 – 5:00pm    Large Group Feedback (Helen)

    ­5:00pm – 7:30pm                Dinner Break


    Saturday, 7:30pm – 9:00pm (PART 4)

    TIME                     TOPIC

    7:30 – 7:35pm    Large Group Feedback

    7:35 – 7:55pm    Re-Image

    7:55 – 8:15pm    Zero Negativity and the Repair Process

    8:15 – 8:35pm    Positive Flooding Exercise – Writing & Demo

    8:35 – 8:50pm    Practice Positive Flooding

    8:50 – 9:00pm    Large Group Feedback


    Sunday, 9:00am – 11:30am (PART 5)

    TIME                          TOPIC

    9:00 – 9:10am                      Large Group Feedback

    9:10 – 9:20am                       Reintroduce Clinical Staff

    9:20 – 9:40am                       Re-Romanticizing

    9:40 – 10:00am                    Caring Behaviors

    10:00 – 10:30am      Practice Caring Behaviors

    10:30 – 10:50am                 Surprises & High Energy Fun

    10:50- 11:10am                  Re-Vision

    11:10 – 11:40am                 Closure & Evaluations

    11:40 – 11:50am                 Large Group Feedback

    11:50 – 12:00pm                 Stand By Me video / Evaluations





    All couples welcome

    Special Interest to

    Couples new and old, in crisis or in love, and married or unmarried, as well as those in the helping professions

    Experience Level

    None required.

  • About 1440 Multiversity

    Beautifully nestled in the California redwoods near Santa Cruz, our 75-acre campus is within easy reach of San Francisco and Silicon Valley.

    1440 Multiversity is a place to spend time engaging some of life's most meaningful personal questions and to enjoy, restore, and reenergize yourself as you do it.

    You'll find new energy through immersion learning—setting aside daily urgencies and dedicating uninterrupted time to focus on important, but often elusive, priorities. Our unique collaboration with world-class faculty coupled with an original, inspirational curriculum and magnificent grounds make this a place like no other. Add in fresh, redwood-scented air, delicious and healthy food, deep reflection, fun exercise, and good sleep and you've pretty much captured what you'll experience here.

  • Accommodations

    At 1440 Multiversity, you’ll find a wide range of accommodations to meet your preferences and budget. All of our rooms have been thoughtfully designed to provide comfort, promote reflection, and foster connection with others.

    Accommodation rates include more than just the bed you sleep in.

    Per-person per-night rates include:

    • nourishing locally sourced, seasonal meals
    • daily meditation and yoga classes
    • non-ticketed evening events
    • use of all facilities, including the Fitness Center, steam rooms, and infinity-edge hot tub.

    Guests also enjoy access to woodland trails, cafés, and shops.


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