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Hold Me Tight Workshop for Couples

1440 Multiversity 800 Bethany Drive Scotts Valley,CA 95066

Take time to renew your relationship and reconnect with the love that brought you together.

Your relationship can be a source of great comfort and joy—and also a cause of stress and pain. Many of us are doing the best that we can to be close to each other, even in the midst of conflict and disconnection. Unfortunately, the habitual strategies that we use may cause more distance, conflict, and distress.

This weekend, you and your partner will learn and practice new ways to strengthen the positive, life-affirming aspects of being in relationship with each other. Led by Michelle Gannon, PhD, and Sam Jinich, PhD, licensed psychologists for more than 20 years and sought-after experts in Emotionally Focused Therapy, you learn to:

  • Define the three “Demon Dialogues”: Find the Bad Guy, Freeze & Flee and Protest Polka
  • Identify “Raw Spots” and their underlying feelings beyond immediate, impulsive reactions
  • Integrate understanding of negative cycles and Raw Spots, and engage in the steps necessary to revisit a “Rocky Moment”
  • Discuss the importance of attachment repair and forgiveness in healthy relationships and describe the six-step model of forgiveness
  • Demonstrate knowledge of and engage in a Hold Me Tight conversation with their partner including the expression of vulnerable emotions and attachment-related needs

Michelle and Sam—through a variety of tools, including presentations, private exercises, prompts for conversations with your partner, and video demonstrations—will help you rediscover the pleasure of being a couple and enjoy a more satisfying relationship.

Take time for a weekend together that will support you as a couple for many years to come.

Personal Development - Relationships

Michelle Gannon, PhD | Sam Jinich, PhD

May 26 - 28, 2017
Friday-Sunday , 2 nights

CE Credits available

$320 Tuition

Plus 2 nights all-inclusive accommodations priced separately below.

Registration Closed

Program Description

Take time to renew your relationship and reconnect with the love that brought you together.

Your relationship can be a source of great comfort and joy—and also a cause of stress and pain. Many of us are doing the best that we can to be close to each other, even in the midst of conflict and disconnection. Unfortunately, the habitual strategies that we use may cause more distance, conflict, and distress.

This weekend, you and your partner will learn and practice new ways to strengthen the positive, life-affirming aspects of being in relationship with each other. Led by Michelle Gannon, PhD, and Sam Jinich, PhD, licensed psychologists for more than 20 years and sought-after experts in Emotionally Focused Therapy, you learn to:

  • Define the three “Demon Dialogues”: Find the Bad Guy, Freeze & Flee and Protest Polka
  • Identify “Raw Spots” and their underlying feelings beyond immediate, impulsive reactions
  • Integrate understanding of negative cycles and Raw Spots, and engage in the steps necessary to revisit a “Rocky Moment”
  • Discuss the importance of attachment repair and forgiveness in healthy relationships and describe the six-step model of forgiveness
  • Demonstrate knowledge of and engage in a Hold Me Tight conversation with their partner including the expression of vulnerable emotions and attachment-related needs

Michelle and Sam—through a variety of tools, including presentations, private exercises, prompts for conversations with your partner, and video demonstrations—will help you rediscover the pleasure of being a couple and enjoy a more satisfying relationship.

Take time for a weekend together that will support you as a couple for many years to come.

Faculty Bio

Michelle Gannon, PhD

Michelle Gannon is a clinical psychologist, individual and couples therapist, and workshop leader who helps people explore and express their feelings, increase understanding, heal from painful experiences, increase empathy, and create more meaningful lives.

With Dr. Sam Jinich, Dr. Gannon leads Hold Me Tight Workshops for Couples to help couples improve communication, connection, and closeness. With more than 20 years of clinical experience, she also supervises and teaches therapists at the San Francisco Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Dr. Gannon has been interviewed about psychology and relationships on Evening Magazine and CBS‰’s The Early Show, as well as in the San Francisco Chronicle, TIME, Huffington Post, People Magazine, and Hitched. She attended the International Daring Way‰ and Rising Strong‰ Workshop Facilitator Training Program with Dr. Brené Brown and co-leads the Rising Strong workshop with Beth Jaeger-Skigen in San Francisco.

Sam Jinich, PhD

Sam Jinich is a clinical psychologist, individual and couples therapist, and workshop leader with more than 20 years of clinical experience.

He is director of the San Francisco Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)‰, where he also serves as a certified supervisor, therapist, and trainer‰. He is also director of the Instituto de Terapia Focalizada en las Emociones in San Francisco.

Born in Mexico City, Dr. Jinich is bilingual and bicultural, and travels to Latin America to teach EFT to Spanish-speaking therapists. With Dr. Michelle Gannon, he leads Hold Me Tight Workshops for Couples to help couples improve communication, connection, and closeness.

His specialty is working with clients who are experiencing emotional distress, have a desire to deepen their understanding of themselves, and want to improve in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, commitment, relationship building, and parenting.

Why Attend

  • Learn how to understand and improve your relationship through presentations by the workshop leaders, private exercises and conversations with your partner and by watching video demonstrations of other couples

  • Feel more accepted by your partner, have less conflict in your relationship and learn to be more accessible, responsive and emotionally engaged with each other

  • Communicate in new ways that promote better understanding, closeness and connection

Things to Know

  • Program Schedule

    Program Schedule

    Friday, May 26

    7:30 PM– 9:00 PM: Attachment and Attunement

    Saturday, May 27

    9:30 AM – 10:00 AM: Understanding your Negative Cycle

    10:00 AM – 11:00 AM: Understanding Raw Spots

    11:00 AM – 12:30 PM: Forgiveness Part 1

    12:30 PM – 1:45 PM: Lunch

    1:45 PM – 3:15 PM: Forgiveness Part 2

    3:15 – 4:45 Sex

    Sunday, May 28

    9:00 AM – 10:30 AM: Hold Me Tight Conversation

    10:30 AM – 11:30 AM: Keeping your Love Alive

  • Prerequisites

    None required.

  • Experience Level

    Licensed professionals
    All Couples

  • CEs Available

    CEs Available

    This course has been approved for 10 CE hours for qualified participants. To learn how and where to apply, click HERE.
    Cancellations and Refunds

    If You Cancel:

    • If you cancel 14 or more days prior to your arrival date, payments made will be refunded in full (less a $50 processing fee).
    • If you cancel between 13 days and 1 day prior to your arrival date, a nonrefundable credit (less a $50 processing fee) will be held for one year from the date of issue.
    • No credit or refund is available if you cancel on your arrival day, if you do not show up, or if you leave a program or event early.
    • No refund will be available if you attend a program and are dissatisfied with its presentation or content.

    If 1440 Multiversity Cancels

    On rare occasions, due to unforeseen circumstances, 1440 Multiversity may need to cancel a program. Should this circumstance arise, you will receive a full refund.

    For questions or concerns, please email Ramona.Kelly@1440.org, Programming Department.

     

     

     

  • Special Interest to

    Helping professionals and therapists might take the Hold Me Tight Workshop with a partner to learn the Emotionally Focused Therapy model and improve communication, closeness, and connection in their own relationships in addition to learning skills to use with their clients.

Accommodations

Standard Double
Affordable comfort with a hall bathroom.
Weeknight rates from $160 per person per night based on double occupancy.*

Standard Single
Affordable solo comfort with a shared hall bathroom.**
Weeknight rates from $175.

Traditional Double
Tastefully designed rooms with a range of bed sizes.
Weeknight rates from $190 per person per night based on double occupancy.*

Suites
Spacious rooms with additional seating and special touches.
Weeknight rates from $330 per person per night based on double occupancy.*

Pods
Modern, Asian-style sleeping space for 8 with twin beds.
Available for booking in mid-February 2018.
Weeknight rates from $140 per person per night.*

Commuter Pass
Register for a program without spending the night. Includes all meals + use of campus amenities. Limited availability.
Weeknight rates from $95 per program night.***

Accommodation rates include more than just the bed you sleep in. Per-person per-night rates include:

  • nourishing farm-to-table meals
  • daily meditation and yoga classes
  • non-ticketed evening events
  • use of all facilities, including the fitness center, steam rooms, and whirlpool.

Guests also enjoy access woodland trails, and enjoy cafés, shops, and evening programs.

*Plus tax. Includes meals, activities, and services. There is an additional charge to book a room privately.
**Plus tax. Includes meals, activities, and services. Limited availability.
***Plus tax. A program night starts upon check-in and goes through lunchtime of the following day (roughly 24 hrs).

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